Welcome to the new Ciao Annie!
I started this blog several years ago with grand ideas of perfecting and documenting all my favorite recipes, complete with well-written stories, precise recipes and gorgeous photos. Oh how my life has changed over the past four years!
I started researching successful blogging techniques and even took a fabulous one day Alt Summit webinar to figure out how the hell to stay motivated, consistent, and actually follow through with the whole idea of posting on a regular basis. I have scraps of paper with scribbled recipes stashed all over the house, and I don’t dare ask Allen about all the unused photos filed on our computer, but completing an actual post… just doesn’t happen. The ideas are totally there, but apparently I have no motivation to follow through.
Upon further research and investigation… it turns out… for many of my favorite blogs… the writers are single, have no kids and/or do not have additional work responsibilities outside of blogging or staying home with kids. Initially I felt totally discouraged… and insanely jealous… mostly insanely jealous… blogging as a career… amazing (I realize it is hard work, but from the outside… just amazing)! It seems like it may be pretty unrealistic for me to start a “successful” blog at this stage in my life, at least according to conventional methods!
- My food isn’t always unique, organic, easy, vegetarian, healthy, decadent, 5 ingredients or less, slow cooked, etc. My cooking style is all across the board, which makes it difficult to define a particular niche. I get this. We all love blogs with consistency. I love that I know just where to go for great light recipes, vegetarian recipes, dessert recipes, one pot recipes, etc. I just don’t want to commit to one style, because that is not how I cook or how we eat!
- I don’t want to make the time commitment necessary, at this stage in my life, to consistently create beautiful food, amazing photos, and clever posts. I do work full time, have two fabulous kiddos, and try (not-so-successfully) to maintain about a million hobbies. Needless to say, I’m just not ready to give up my family time, friend time, crafting, party planning, books, or favorite TV shows to focus on cooking. (Okay, the books may be a stretch, I have been reading Go Set a Watchman for literally (ha… pun pseudo intended) the past 7 months).
I do, however, love the idea of blogging, so what the hell, I’m trying again (for like the 15th time)! I’m hoping this blog will be my motivation to stop talking about all my great party, recipe and project ideas and get down to business!
While I absolutely love and value my favorite blogs, I am determined to find the middle ground between the over-the-top party plans that require a second mortgage and the simplified party plans that stress ease and simplicity. While I definitely want recipes that will make my friends and family excited to eat at our place, I am not competing for a spread in Bon Appetit or a show on the Food Network. As we continue unpacking and organizing (two years later), I want to settle into a comfortable style and personalize our home, but I don’t really need to please anyone except those of us actually living here! And… there have to be some other moms out there who aren’t always basking in the glow of motherhood or constantly bitching about spilled milk and other unfortunate consequences of crazy kids in the house (unless it is breastmilk… then the bitching is totally warranted).
My party plans, recipes, crafts and thoughts won’t always be perfect, but let’s be honest… neither is my life!
Confession of a *wannabe* blogger… While I do hope that others will read my blog, relate, try new recipes, and explore new DIY projects, it turns out the new plan for this blog is self motivation.